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The format

What does Distracted Boyfriend mean?

Also called Man Looking at Other Woman

Label the distraction, the person tempted by it, and the commitment they're about to neglect.

The man turns to look at the woman passing on the left while his partner on the right notices. Your labels turn that glance into a choice: a new hobby instead of an unfinished project, or another tab instead of the task already open.

The right-hand label matters as much as the tempting one. It tells us what the person should be paying attention to. Without it, the picture shows interest but loses the betrayal that makes the setup funny.

Origin

A staged stock photo with three useful roles.

Photographer Antonio Guillem made the stock photograph. Shutterstock credits him and lists an upload date of July 19, 2015; Know Your Meme also records an iStock listing from November that year. [1] [2]

The photo's later meme captions assign ideas, habits, or priorities to the three people. Know Your Meme documents captioned versions from January 2017, while noting that earlier Turkish Facebook uses are not precisely dated. [2]

How the meme spread

  1. The stock photograph

    Shutterstock's listing dates this photograph to 2015, before its documented use as a labeled meme. [1]

  2. An early music joke

    A documented Facebook version labels the man Phil Collins and the two women as pop and progressive music. [2]

  3. More labels, more photographs

    Examples spread on Twitter and Reddit, and people share other photographs from Guillem's series. [2]

Caption guide

Name what gets abandoned.

Start with the commitment on the right. Then choose a distraction that would actually tempt the person in the middle. A freshly bought notebook can be funnier than a dramatic life change if everyone knows the old notebook is still empty.

Use labels rather than dialogue. Keep the faces visible and place each label close to its person so the reader doesn't have to untangle who represents what.

Woman on the left
The new temptation pulling attention away.
Man in the middle
Who is getting distracted.
Woman on the right
The existing commitment being ignored.
  • Put the new attraction on the left and the existing obligation on the right.
  • A short middle label such as 'Me' or 'Our team' usually gives enough context.
  • Make the two outer labels comparable: two projects, two purchases, or two ways to spend the evening.

Distracted Boyfriend examples

Original captions to try with this template.

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Distracted Boyfriend: Woman on the left: A new side project. Man in the middle: Me. Woman on the right: The one I nearly finishedA new sideprojectMeThe one Inearlyfinished
Work

The exciting new project

The old project is close to done, which makes abandoning it for a fresh start more recognizable.

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Woman on the left
A new side project
Man in the middle
Me
Woman on the right
The one I nearly finished
Distracted Boyfriend: Woman on the left: A bookstore sale. Man in the middle: Me. Woman on the right: My unread booksA bookstoresaleMeMy unreadbooks
Everyday

The next book

Buying more of the thing you haven't used is the conflict. The books on the right give the sale a consequence.

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Woman on the left
A bookstore sale
Man in the middle
Me
Woman on the right
My unread books
Distracted Boyfriend: Woman on the left: Making a study timetable. Man in the middle: Me. Woman on the right: Actually studyingMaking astudytimetableMeActuallystudying
School

A productive-looking detour

The distraction looks responsible, but it still pulls the student away from the work.

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Woman on the left
Making a study timetable
Man in the middle
Me
Woman on the right
Actually studying
Sources2 references

References for this template. Example captions are original.

  1. Antonio Guillem's photograph on Shutterstock

    Photographer credit, original stock-photo description, and upload date.

  2. Distracted Boyfriend: Know Your Meme

    Early captioned posts and the format's circulation in 2017.