How to Make Memes That Resonate with Your Community
A meme your community shares does more than get a laugh - it says 'we get each other'. Here's how to find your community's inside jokes and turn them into memes people actually pass around.
But, do memes really bring a community together?
Fair question. Here's the evidence:
- WeRateDogs turned user-submitted dog photos and running inside jokes into a community of over 9 million people who all speak the same language. The exclusivity of getting the joke is the glue.
- Research backs it up: studies covered by The New York Times found memes create shared identity, connect people with similar interests, and even help them cope with stress.
- The Bernie Sanders mittens meme from the 2021 inauguration had strangers worldwide photoshopping the same grumpy senator into thousands of scenes - and the shared joke even raised money for charity.
How do you make memes that bring a community together?
Identify your community's shared interests and experiences
Before you make a single meme, read the room. Your comments, DMs, and replies already tell you what your community finds funny: the running jokes, the shared complaints, the references they keep coming back to.
Say your followers keep one-upping each other with puns. That's not noise - that's a content brief. Lean into pun-based memes and the community feels seen.
How to actually gather those insights:
- Read your comments and DMs like research, not admin
- Note which memes spark discussion, not just likes
- Track the jokes and references that keep resurfacing
- When in doubt, ask - communities love being consulted
The pattern is simple: listen first, meme second.
Choose relatable and inclusive topics
The best meme topics are the ones most of your community has lived through. Shared struggles are meme gold: if your community is college students, all-nighters and group-project freeloaders will always land.
Inclusive doesn't mean bland. It means the joke unites the room instead of splitting it - skip anything that punches down or turns part of your audience into the punchline.
Before you post, ask yourself:
- What experiences do most of my community members share?
- What values or passions unite them?
- Would anyone in my community feel like the target of this joke?
Determine the best platforms for sharing your memes
Every platform has its own meme culture. Instagram rewards polished visuals and snappy captions; X rewards fast, punchy takes on whatever happened today; LinkedIn wants the joke wrapped in a work insight.
Go where your community already hangs out, then adapt the format. Same joke, different wrapper: a carousel on Instagram, a quote-post on X, a single sharp image on LinkedIn.
Ask yourself:
- Where does my community actually spend time online?
- What meme formats perform best on each platform?
- How often can I post without the quality dropping?
Make memes that align with your community
Humor styles differ: some communities live for wordplay, some for self-deprecating 'struggle' memes, some for pure absurdist chaos. Use what you learned from listening to match yours.
Then treat memes as conversation starters, not billboards. Post the meme, ask a question ('too real?'), and reply to the people who answer. The meme opens the door; the conversation builds the community.
Keep in mind as you go:
- Let your community's own jokes set your tone
- Never punch down - a cheap laugh costs you trust
- Ask questions in your captions to invite replies
- Show up in the comments; that's where community actually happens
- Watch the feedback and adjust - humor is a moving target
A Case Study: American Museum of Natural History's Science-Themed memes
Background
The American Museum of Natural History (AMNH) had a classic institution problem: world-class content, and a younger, digital-native audience that wasn't walking through the door. So the museum went where they were - the feed.
Strategy
The museum's social team started turning science into memes: trending formats, pop culture references, and complex topics compressed into jokes a scrolling thumb can't ignore.
Implementation
Three tactics did the work:
- Riding trending formats: Drake Hotline Bling to compare species, Distracted Boyfriend to explain scientific concepts - familiar formats carrying unfamiliar facts.
- Making science relatable: one meme compared a prehistoric giant sloth to a modern couch potato; another explained natural selection with a Simpsons quote.
- Prompting replies: many memes ended with a question inviting followers to add their own jokes, turning a broadcast into a conversation.
Results
Engagement and follower growth jumped, with some memes pulling tens of thousands of likes, comments, and shares.
More importantly, the museum became a place younger audiences actually went for science - because it spoke their language instead of asking them to learn museum-speak.
Lessons Learned
What you can steal from AMNH's playbook:
- Move fast on trends - meme formats have a shelf life measured in weeks
- Use humor to make niche topics accessible, not to chase randomness
- End memes with a prompt; replies build community, impressions don't
- Take risks - a playful miss costs less than being ignored
Memes aren't just a content format - they're the fastest way to say 'we get each other' at scale. Listen to your community, meme what they already joke about, and show up in the replies. The community builds itself from there.
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Written by
Sanjeev NC
Co-founder of Supermeme.ai. Building the default meme generator of the internet since 2022.